Reflections

Here I am now together with my classmate, Azhan, at Woodlands Regional Library. Today, i'm gonna post as entitled "Reflections". There are so many things to reflect in my life.

In life we tend to do so many wrongdoings without us realising. Words we spout out aren't always the nicest thing on others. People feel hurt and furious with you at times. Always wants to have the last say no matter.

Being too nice aren't always the best option for me anymore. Its not that you have to be nasty to anyone all the time but be firm with your decisions knowing what's best before anyone could step on your head and criticise you at your back for your little wrongdoings.Creating a big hoo-haa and controversies.

FRIENDS
You think everyone will like the way you are?
ALL your "friends" will love you for who you are?
Everything you advice or say they will listen?
Are they even interested to know you and put you in their "Friends List"?

Those are just an example of what you may never thought of. Thats reality! People your actually mixing around with all this while might be your enemies! You might have read and say "NO WAY".

Not everyone may click with your style and character. They may not admit it but they actually taking you as a joke. Thats when your maturity comes in, people like to mix with anyone with maturity regardless of their age. Slowly fun kicks in to entertain your friends with your sense of humours so as they will feel comfortable with. Still be careful with your jokes or stuffs you talk.

Its human to be nice to those people that you like. Its nothing wrong being nice towards your peers. But being too nice will hurt yourself one day. "Too Nice" in my term is being too giving in till you forgot whats your likes or hates. Does everything to make them happy. But the thing is WHO ARE THEY? yea your answer will be "THEY ARE MY FRIENDS"!

Before others to judge you, its best to see what kind of people you mix around with. What kind of people you mix around with determines who you are and how you think as a person.

Example:
Mixing with people of a bad company, you'll become one of them.
Mixing with people of a good company, you'll become a better person.

You will say that you won't be influence with what those people do and you know yourself that what wrong or right.

If thats what you think I would say...yeah! That's only the first step to decide the right path!

If your have your first step right then you have to consider what type of a person to be. No point mixing too much with people who creates Zero problems but no brains of the future. Hanging around everyday with no sense of directions in life, arrive home daily with your daily routines of nothing much but just eat and sleep. No plans for the future just yet. Couldn't be bothered with anything just living life as it is istead of improving to make life much meaningful.

I've been mixing around with many different kinds of people. The good, the bad and the couldn't be bothered with life people. Mostly way above my age. They are such matured thinkers which helps you out by making them as your role models in life. They are no celebrity. They just have so many advice and shares their experiences with me. Teaching me whats the meaning of life and how to go about going through adulthood.

You can get advice from everywhere, I mean good advices that benefits you.