Need Advice? Need someone to share your problems?

"To everyone out there view my blog and whether I know you or not if you need advice on some life topics just leave me a comment and i'll ans your problems thru my post.You can choose to be anonymous!"


The above mentioned sentence has been send to a couple of blogs. If you need advice on anything I'm willing to help you answer. My motive of doing this is I wanna help people out of goodwill. So bottom line is "ITS FREE" anyways. You may not be comfortable revealing your name or me to know you, you can choose to be anonymous!


I will try my best to ans any of your questions ASAP! Times may be hard now and peoples have problems and have no one to talk to you or ain't comfortable to talk to any of your other friends. You have me! I'll try my best to share the bestest of solutions.





ShahV
Life's GOod!!!

My Eyes hurts!

No football match today, but no way am I gonna stay home the whole afternoon...! lols...


Met up with Shabir and Raimie for a swim at our nearby Woodlands Swimming Complex. Azhan supposed to join us for a swim together but he's kinda bz for something else. But its ok my plan still on anyways. Basically yea its Sunday! Family day so as usual damn lots of people. The pool was infested with kids playing and for some dads teaching their kids to swim.


On another note, CHICKS!!!! Caucasian and local chicks were there too!! BUT...their with their partners....damn! haha...but my eyes can't help but kept looking at the great figures and pretty looking faces...haha yea..yea..I know I sounds like a pervert or a desperado now! haha no denying!


Still we managed to brush them aside and continue with our swim. How many laps not so sure...we swam almost non-stop to and fro the pool. So yea me as usual without a goggle and now my eyes hurts and tears keep flowing out my eyes...pathetic may I sound I think I really must get a goggle myself! Im gonna buy them in school one day, much value for money...can get it for 16bucks or so...


So yea now gonna surf the net and continue my research about something now...(hush! not gonna tell you yet!) so bye for now...looking forward for a beautiful tomorrow!




ShahV
Signing out!

Bitter Experience

I experienced a nasty incident and whats like to have a true 'hater', when someone has taken offense by whatever i've said or did which made them wanting to create a huge controversy publicly such as writing a blog post of their own and commenting on a blog to someone related to me. Trying their bestest to destroy everything and accusing me of something which weren't true (at all!).

Yea, I was emotional I must admit when I came to know of the attack which were published in their own blogs to everyone to read. Negative words which hurts the most and everyone knows that. Unfortunately, I didn't handled it the right way. As many other problems came to me at the wrong time I must say made me stressed up and couldn't think properly searching for the wisest solutions to settle the matter.

What hurts the most at the point of time I read comments from different people giving the most negative or nastiest of comments that you can ever read. Hard for me to swallow as I search endlessly for the weapon to fight those "evil" bloggers. But whenever I attempted to defend myself which turns out to be a big mistake as they could take any word I said and re-purpose it as more proof of whatever argument they were making.

Friends who knew about the matter defended me on their blog and the controversies kept growing and growing. Soon after I came to know that my friends were getting their fingers to their keyboards launching the attacks I stopped them. Frustrated I felt as the conroversies kept growing. Loads of bloggers attacked those innocent people around me.

All those controversies resulted in a big spike of traffics. People from anywhere were joining in the "forum" or "fun". Well its human nature that everyone loves to watch a fight or an argument. It was really a challenge for me as lots are getting involved.

Ive learned:

1. When you have a hater they are wearing special lenses that see you in a certain way. No matter what you say back to them, they don’t take on board your words, instead they use them as fuel to keep the flame war going. They love that they have your attention and want to do whatever they can to keep you involved and show you how wrong they feel you are.
2. The medium of text as a communication tool is weak. Words can be interpreted in so many ways and when you try and use them to defend yourself online, you can waste a lot of time.

From what i've learned so far on to make most of the public flaming....

There are actually two options in dealing with haters:

Option 1: If you feel the one attacking you is just saying all kinds of negative remarks on you, just ignore it. They were trying to gain your attention, whatever your response gonna be you are actually giving them what they want! You should just forget about it.

Option 2: Reply and defend yourself!!!!!

I'm sure majority of you will say option 2's the best option. There are no both right and wrong answer but how you use it. For me option 1 is easy. Option two is rife with dangers, but only if you let your emotions get involved.

"The key when replying is to state your position and do so in a mature manner and avoid any personal attacks. What happens in most situations is you get a lot of personal attacks thrown at you, and when you don’t reply with the same, you end up looking a lot better for it." -Yaro Starak

I think i'm gonna stop here for now gonna do something's at home so yea i'll continue maybe later ya!

Been a long time since...

Its been a long long time since my last post. Well I'm back! (again!) Gone through some ups and downs for the past few months now. Taking it lessons learn and moving on with my life. This time i'm stronger and improving on everything so as to avoid doing the same mistakes again.

As normal human beings we make mistakes here and there. But when things get messy, clear the mess which you've created yourself. Reflect back on the things you do which might offend anyone in anyway. Whether you feel right or wrong keep reflecting what 'little' things that you've done without you realise that might've created the sparks turned into wildfire.

Somethings you can't learn from the book but its what you go through things and handled it is called "experience". Thats where you really learn well most. Always remember this sentence which me myself found guilty of running away is "There's a solution to each and every of your problems" So now i'm gonna try real hard to always remember that sentence whenever i encounter any problems along the way.

I think i'm done for now, I guess...So i'll be actively blogging from now on coz there's just so much to say and reflect. I'll keep trying to be as simple and organise as possible for all readers. Happy reading! :)

ShahV

When life's problems seem overwhelming, look around and see what other people are coping with. You may consider yourself fortunate.
- Ann Landers

GOAL!!!

Hey I'm back! Just came back from my soccer game 2day @ Wellington Rd. Rainy day but luckily wasn't that heavy rain. The field's wet and we're worried about that way we're going to play our game. When i reached Wellington Field, the opponent were already there and to my surprise i met my colleague, Bambang! He's my opponent! My god that boy is very quick and skillful. I was hoping that he didnt start and fortunately he didnt! I was so relieved!

I'm naturally a Goalkeeper but i started as a striker in the first half partnering Khairul Anuar. This game is very important to Khai so much so as to be in the first eleven squad in our upcoming league tournament. Well for me i have to prove my versatility that i can play anywhere too. So we both are going real hard to prove ourselves and we did! I scored both of our first two goals and followed by Khai. I was so happy to have scored the two goals that i went shouting out to Bambang, my opponent for the day. hehe... All of us played well and really hard on tackles and defended strongly. Half time was a relief for me coz its a long time i actually run that much after my injury. haha weak lah! Half time i switched to my most preferred position, Goalkeeper. I didnt really had much to do but they kept attacking but wasnt even close except for a shot just over the bar. My other team-mates scored more and more goals and going confident. Our opponents seems like almost giving up even Bambang came in second half but rarely had a touch on the ball. A huge trashing for them 8-0 the scoreline at full time although i must credit they played well too except their defenders couldnt match our speedy strikers.






JEPFC

After the game we went to have our dinner at Woodlands TEH TARIK. It was fun chatting and we kept laughing. Talking almost everything about football to upgrading the team's commitee and more improvement in our gameplay. I really can't wait to meet up with this peoples everyweek for games and after game hanging out! They are just so funny and so fun to be with.

This team i say are like a ONE BIG HAPPY FAMILY!!!! Go menjengs!

[Fraud]

My Shift 1 duty was very tiring. Don't feel like coming to work in the morning. Not enough sleep last nite. Blame it on myself. Can't sleep what to do. But I still have to go to work. Btw at work we met our new OJT(on-job training) officer, CPL Aizuddin and he'll be with us for th e next 3 months. The sad news was my SSGT Tong wants me to be his partner and teach everthing I knw. haha! (mampos!) He followed me everywhere I go and I taught him what to do everything. He's quite a fast learner. We kept smoking amd smoking. Disturbing my fellow AETOS friends on the ground. Nice knowing him anyways and he's a nice and humble guy (for now! still new!). Welcome to TEAM BRAVO!!!

Going to ORD soon in a few weeks time and I can't wait. At the same time, thinking that i'm gonna miss this place so i brought my own digicam. After my second OE (official ease) we did not return to ground, wanting to take pictures. Together with me, CPL Terence and the new offcer, CPL Aizuddin. We went up to the top floor of the building and took many pictures at the same time enjoying the cool afternoon breeze. We enjoyed ourselves taking pictures together so much. But unfortunately I've not be able to take pictures with my other colleagues coz they were very busy working while we FRAUD!!!! haha.. I'll take pictures with you guys on our next shift okaiz!

Here are a few pictures that we took:


We see CRIMES

Service Excellence

Cpl Aizuddin & Me

Cpl Terence & Cpl Aizuddin

[New Kid on the Blog]

SHAHVENGEANCE

Hey there this is the first time i'm trying this out creating my own blog. I may not be a blog person but since i decide to make myself one so i'll make it as interesting as possible for people to see and read. I've viewed many examples of a blog so maybe it'll be okay. haha!